Break the traditional first dates. Break the formality of first dates.  You don't have to ask her to a dinner date or a movie or an awkward  first class dining. Be a good friend and make your first few dates and  meetings fun. These traditional dates may cause more pressure and  awkwardness for Asian ladies and your efforts may all be put to waste.  Try those fun and relaxed meetings or invitations for coffee or going  out and enjoying something that may interest both of you.


